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detouring of conflicts

This phrase describes a couple's attempt to avoid conflict by recruiting a third person, usually a child, to create a problems so that the couple can avoid focusing on their own difficulties.
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Definition extracted with permission from Simon, Fritz, et al, Family Process, Inc.: Language of Family Therapy: A Systemic Vocabulary and Source Book (Family Process Press Series)

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